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Would anyone be into a movie night, or would that just sow discord among us?

We could get a big projector and set something up outside, maybe? It might be cute??

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[1] You're actually not allowed to accuse someone of having a psychotic break during a debate. Very unsportsmanlike.
[2] Yeah, go ahead ~~and store that in your "better calculator" app~~.
[3] Maybe we should just watch Uncut Gems.

~~So?!~~ But it was Whit's idea. I'm not in charge.

[Ack! Jannie]
Oh, I wasn't scolding you. Sorry if there was some shitty little debater tone transference. Just seemed like you were having one of your 'god, i wish that were me' moments.

Oh, I’m on my own movie shit now. Really want to rewatch Black Narcissus, but I’ll show up for a Station summer movie showing of Uncut Gems.

[Ack! Jannie]
But on that note, isn’t his thing being Mr. Perfect? I’m only picking up what he’s putting down. Why does it matter to you, anyway? I’m not bothering anyone.

🤙

[Ack! Jannie]
What is happening right now?

I don’t know, Annie. Probably nothing?

~~Wow, we're still unlocking new fun and unique ways to piss me off, I guess. Cool.~~ [...] Okay, then I probably meant nothing by it.

[…] Okay. Because you telling me I can’t at least be a little jealous of a someone who can get a pat on the back when he’s having a bad day without having to plan for it, and then dismissing it as a “God, I wish that were me” moment makes me feel a little small. I’m not saying I’m the most agonized man in the world. Just sucks that’s what you jump to when I don’t even mean to bring it up. But no harm no foul.

Thank you for telling me. I apologize for assuming that I knew what you were thinking and for attempting to manage your emotions without being asked. I will mind my own business!.

Lmfao now I made you feel bad. […] It’s whatever, Annie. Don’t sweat it. Mr. Sensitive over here.

Ugh. I feel bad because you made me mad and it’s not cool to be mad when someone else feels bad. So nyeh.

How did I make you mad?

It’s nothing. […] Well, actually, I’m being super hypocritical. More than I can tolerate.

It bothered me that you ‘nothing’ed me when I knew you were annoyed.

And that you used my name in anger(??).

I’m sorry for being dismissive. Bad conflict deescalation tactic. I wasn’t angry per se, more resigned, but I see how’d you’d read it that way. […] Is the name thing about (dis)respect? Or something else?

~~Oh, that's worse though.~~ [...] It's okay. Really. I didn't mean to make this about me. And there's no real reason for the name thing. It's certainly not about needing to feel respected. I hurt my own feelings by reading it in a mean tone in my head. Guess that makes me Mrs. Sensitive.

But I'm good, if you're good?

Edited 2023-07-10 06:56 (UTC)

All good, Annie (normal tone).

(Not sarcastic.)

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